What's in the Closet??

I am not like any other woman in the world, or at least, that is what my giant ego tells me from time to time. True, I cannot go into a local shop and buy a corset or any other item of intimate apparel with ease. There have been times when I have seriously debated going full on hockey girl and taking a swing at the hapless clerk who has had the misfortune of waiting on me that day. And there have been times when I have walked out, tears stinging my eyes, a knot in my throat keeping me from speaking at all. Finally, a hunt for intimate apparel, this time a bra, has even left me laughing in my car hysterically. That is a story I will save for another time, though. I have to look a little harder to find a good corset but when I do find the one, it is something special to behold. They can be that way with other women as well.

I have a friend who has never been the most feminine of creatures, in fact we all kind of wondered about her for a while if you know what I mean. One day she came to my home in a dither. She had been invited to a wedding and didn’t have anything to wear other than what was the frumpiest dress I have ever seen. I told her that she didn’t want to go looking like her mother and she burst into tears; that was her mother’s dress. Great. So, although I loathe shopping, I do love my friends and I bundle her, weeping and all into the car and away we go. We find a semi decent looking dress for a fabulous price and go to try it on when I was forced to confront the reality that my friend was a to the bone, fashion don’t. Like with a capital Do Not. We buy the dress and scurry to the lingerie store, praying that a good sales girl would be there and not a skittish one. You can have a nervous Nellie customer or a tense Tessie sales girl; they both cannot be ready to bolt. Because of the style of dress that my friend had just bought, I suggested a corset and thank goodness she turned out to be an easy fit. She found a gorgeous beige corset, one with tiny pink rosettes and just a thin sliver of ribbon; just enough to be pretty but not so much that it was precious.

Looking back in the mirror, my friend finally saw a glimmer of what I and everyone else around her saw, a beautiful woman. This perfect corset hugged her curves and womanly lines exactly where it was necessary. We left that day with not one but three new corsets, a bra and a whole collection of beautiful and womanly panties. The corsets are not magic by any stretch of the imagination but they did let her see what she had been ignoring for a long time- that she is in fact a woman and that she should be dressing like one.

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The holiday season, birthdays and of course, Valentine’s Day often make men sweat the gift they are going to give to their loved one. They worry that the item that they choose will be taken in the wrong way or that they will buy the wrong thing. Panicked, they end up buying the perfume that they know their mother wears or worse, a vacuum. Boys, step away from that Hoover and listen carefully to me. I am going to tell you exactly how to buy sexy lingerie as a gift for your special lady. Give the perfume to your mother and leave the vacuum in the store.

Think about what you would like to see your lady in and what she would actually wear. If you know she is never going to wear a crotchless, open crotch affair but that is your ultimate fantasy, buy something that is a compromise- maybe some sexy lingerie that is a little racier than what she has already. Think about the colors that would flatter her skin tones- if you would love to see her in red but it makes her look washed out and pale, then think of the same type of sexy lingerie in burgundy or in a nice, rosy pink. The benefit of pink, in addition to being a softer color is that it tends to give a gentle flush of color to any complexion.

Next, you will need to know what size she wears. With the exception of some caftans and the old lady robes that are never a part of sexy lingerie listings, there are very few, sexy items that are really, ever one size fits all. If you don’t know what size that your lady wears, relax, in some cases that is a closely guarded secret that ranks right up there with a woman’s age and her correct weight in terms of national security. You might be able to sneak into her dressers and find a tag or two but nine times out of ten, those babies have been ripped out or marked out or otherwise disposed of. Tough break, right? You could ask a friend but the friend could probably only give you a best guess answer and besides the friend would blab. Take an item with you to the lingerie shop and have one of the clerks help you pick out the size, explaining that you are buying sexy lingerie as a gift and that no one is really being all that helpful about it.

Finally, when you present the present (ah, puns are nothing but lazy writing, to be sure) to your lady, make sure that you use a little style. Think of the song that was playing the day you met her, or the day you first made love, or the day you proposed, or any other day that is special to you as a couple. Play that song in the background, light some candles, pour a glass of champagne or whatever makes her happy. And kiss her before you give her the present. Men, if you never walk away with a single lesson other than this: never rush the moment and always start with a kiss.

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If you gathered a room full of women and got them started talking about corsets, bras and panties, you might find that there are a lot of them who are envying the woman next to them for one reason or another. Look ladies: we are all beautiful, we are all goddesses, but we are by no means anywhere near the same. We may fall into categories of a certain body type, or just maybe we are in a category all on our own. Forget that horrible “one size fits all” label, other than sloppy tee shirts, that tag is not even true and it certainly never applies to corsets. For those, you have to shop for your own body type. After all, you want to flaunt what you’ve got and fake what you’re not – and you are not going to accomplish that with one size fits anything.

Corsets: it’s Sexy or Bust

There are a number of ways you can shop for the right corset including by the bust size. Bigger boobs mean bigger corsets with a little more substantial to the top. Smaller boobs may mean a little bit of padding or additional material to give a little bit of boost. Address your boob issues with the right corset and you will be more pleased with the results.

Torsos: the Long and the Short of it

My friend Rosemarie was always so tall and thin, with an equally long torso. I was always shorter, well, the shortest in the group with the short torso to go with my height. In fact, my torso was annoyingly short- certain things don’t always fit me the way I want them to. For me, finding corsets or a bathing suit can be a struggle because not only do I have a big difference in measurement from top to bottom, I don’t have a lot of space between the two.

Hips, Hips, Hooray

Finally, a corset, especially one that is meant to be worn long, will have to fit over the hips as well. That means that if you are small on top and a little bottom heavy, your corset must fit that way and vice versa.

I am a nightmare to buy a corset for, although I love them. Currently I have two- a basic black and a racy red but would like to have more. (I had my eye on a pretty white one with pale pink ribbon, but so far, it isn’t happening.)Here is the thing: I was not built at the factory correctly. They were apparently putting people together with spare parts that day in October 1967 because: I have no shoulders to speak of (possibly on back order, but unlikely to come in). I have breasts that were injected with Miracle Grow sometime in my tender youth and that has not worn off yet. I have the tiny, impossibly small waist of a Barbie (thankfully with more flex) but the rounded hips and butt of a woman. Yep, a complete nightmare to buy for!

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Whether you are a student or a professional, a man or a woman, everyone deserves a night of pampering once in a while. There are many ways to indulge in a nice night in, shutting out the hustle and bustle of the outside world. Consider coming home from a long day at the office and allowing yourself to have exactly that.

Imagine coming in turning off your phone and pouring yourself a glass of your favourite champagne or wine, dimming the lights, turning on some soft, mellow background music and slipping into a nice hot bubble bath. You might even want to go a bit farther and place some scented candles around your bath and for that extra ambience. Allow yourself to exhale. Let go of all of the day’s stresses and slide yourself into that steamy bath. Sip your beverage, close your eyes and relax as the soft bubbles rise up around your body and the heat loosens all those tight muscles. Listen to the sound of the music playing and let yourself forget about everything else aside from just how wonderful it feels to let it all go. Get your partner involved and invite them into the bath with you.

Once you are enjoying full relaxation, rinse off and step out of your bath. You may want to wrap yourself in a soft comfortable robe or might even prefer to enjoy the remainder of your evening bare. Move into your living area where you have already picked out one of your all time favourite movies. Put it in and relax some more with a favourite snack. You might like popcorn, ice cream or maybe some chocolate. If you’re on a diet of sorts, ignore it this time. You’re sure to get some pleasure in a night of pampering. Remember, you deserve it. This is your naughty night in. Indulge.

While indulging in a naughty night in, you might consider bringing your partner and some sexy lingerie into the picture. Sexy Lingerie can add a lovely touch to your night in, adding a bit spice to your evening. You might try working it in along with some of the steps mentioned above. Pick out your sexiest lingerie. The lingerie that makes you feel your sexy best. You might even ask your partner to do the same, as there is sexy lingerie available for any gender. Share a glass of your wine or champagne and maybe have a close, slow dance together to that soft music you have playing in the background. Then you might consider making your way to the bath together and slowly helping one another out of your sexy lingerie and sliding in for a shared sponge bath. This part can be rather exciting and fun after the excitement of gazing at one another in that sexy lingerie. Then continue to your movie together…or wherever that last step leads you.

There are countless ways to enjoy a naughty or nice evening in. All you have to do is know what you like. Be creative. Give yourself permission to indulge.

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The push up bra can be a girl’s best friend. For many smaller-chested women, a push up bra can create cleavage and enhance the bust line better than an ordinary bra. This type of bra is also great for women with bigger busts to create more lift while helping clothes lay better on the body. A push up bra is great for an important event or a big night out, but they can also be practical for everyday use if you know how to properly wear one during the day. However, if worn with inappropriate clothing, a push up bra can make you look trashy.

A push up bra is great for evening events. Many cocktail dresses are cut lower in the front to enhance cleavage. This can pose a problem for small-chested women since a regular bra will not create a bigger bust size. For evening dresses, showing a lot of cleavage in a push up bra should be balanced by showing less leg. A dress that hits at the knee or lower is more appropriate when showing a lot of skin on top. The reverse is also true. If you plan to wear a short dress that shows off your legs, it is best to save the push up bra for another time.

Large breasts can also find a push up bra useful. Larger breasts may appear saggy, especially as women get older, and have children. A push up bra offers more lift to provide a younger and more streamlined look for a woman. Empire-waist tops and dresses, which have stitching just below the bust, can benefit from a push up bra to keep the bust line in its proper place and help the clothes lay in a more flattering manner on the body.

For an evening look, the same rule should be followed if you are large-chested and are wearing a push up bra. If you are wearing a low-cut top, the bottom of the dress should be knee-length or longer to achieve a classy look.

Many women love the way their chest looks with a push up bra and would like to wear one every day. This can be done with the right daytime clothes and it is important to remember to not show too much skin while accentuating your bust line. Button down shirts are a great look for day that can reveal a slight hint of cleavage while still appearing respectable. The shirt can be buttoned further up or down, depending on how formal you need to dress. An alternative is a cardigan sweater with buttons.

For an informal daytime look, a tee-shirt can still be worn with a push up bra. However, the cut of the shirt is important. A crew neck tee-shirt may look odd with a fuller chest, so choose a flattering neckline such as a V-neck or scoop neckline. Cowl neck sweaters are also great for flaunting your chest in an informal setting. Avoid anything high up on the neck, such as turtlenecks.

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What is great about push up bras, aside from the fact that besides giving the bust line a feminine boost is this particular style of brassiere provides a great deal of support to the breasts. Formerly known as the padded bra, this bra style pushes the breasts up and toward the middle of the breastline to enhance the size of the breasts by up to two sizes.

How does a push up bra achieve this? Through the clever use of foam or gel padding, either angled in the bottom of the bra or more commonly angled in the sides of the bra to push the breasts inward and together.

Foam padding is often built directly into the brassiere and is the most well known and common of all push up enhancements. However, the past few years, new inovations in the lingerie and intimate apparel industry have seen different variations of cleavage enhancers such as insertable pads that are also called cookies. These inserts can be put into bras or removed whenever needed and of course depending on the particular outfit a woman decided to wear.

Water bras, and brassieres with gel padding are also gaining in popularity, as a lot of women feel they offer a more natural look that mimics the true bustline. These brassieres are a great alternative to traditional foam padding. And, if a woman wants to go really high tech, some innovative bra styles are now using silicone, though it is not as widely available as gel and foam padded bras. Again, silicone is meant to give a more natural appearance and movement to the breasts. These “newer” push up bra styles are of course more expensive that traditional padded bras, but offer women much better cleavage since that is what they are designed for.

In recent years push up bras have become the lingerie must have in terms of women’s clothes and intimate apparel. Things to consider are of course getting the right bra size. That is key, because if a brassiere, be it a push up bra or even the other end of the spectrum, a minimizer bra does not fit properly, a woman’s clothing will not look right. Choosing the right bra size also affects ones posture, so remember bra fit is key.

Another important consideration is choosing the right brassiere fabric. Pay close attention to the materials and make sure that you buy comfortable fabric, be it silk, satin, microfiber or lace. A great many women acutally opt for cotton bras for everyday because it is so soft against the skin. For the most part though, push up bras are usually lace, satin, or microfiber.

Avoid any fabrics that are rough or will chafe against your skin. Do not opt for the least expensive push up bra since it will probably be made of a coarse and cheap fabric that you will wear once and never wear again. It is better to invest a little more money in getting a decent push up bra that fits well and feels comfy cosy on your skin. Remember, lingerie is an investment and you are worth it!

Author Bio: Carmen Petitclerc is a lingerie designer and enthusiast who hails from beautiful Toronto, Canada! Follow her intimate apparel tips on push up bras and her lingerie blog at Love of Lingerie

Whether you are planning on heading out to a night club for a Halloween party or just want to wear something sexy in the bedroom to spice up your love life, lingerie costumes can be a great idea. Because there are a lot of options to choose from, finding the perfect outfit should be relatively easy. Sexy adult costumes can be found at lingerie stores, costume shops and even some select variety stores. Both online and brick and mortar stores offer a wide selection.

The Sexy Schoolgirl Costume

The naughty schoolgirl costume is a popular lingerie outfit that will probably never go out of style. This costume combines the appeal of innocence with unadulterated sensuality that is sure to be an attention getter at a costume party or a huge turn on in the bedroom. This costume can be purchased as a complete set or the individual garments can be bought separately and combined with items you already own to complete the look. The costume can be designed to look any way you like, however, the typical schoolgirl outfit generally consists of a plain white button style shirt, a short plaid skirt and knee high stockings. To make this costume even more seductive, a pair of spiked heel or platform shoes can be added to complete the ensemble.

The Naughty Nurse Outfit

Another of the more popular adult costumes for women is the naughty nurse. Like the schoolgirl costume, there are a number of different styles available. In terms of color, red and white are the most popular for this outfit. This costume can also be accessorized with embellishments such as a plastic stethoscope and even a small clipboard for those who really want to go all out. To add more spice to the outfit, a garter belt, thigh high stockings and a pair of platforms or spiked heel shoes can be worn if you really want to grab that special guy’s attention.

The Playboy Bunny Costume

Everyone is familiar with the name Playboy and its impact on the world in terms of eroticism, so it should come as no surprise why the Playboy bunny outfit has been so popular over the past forty years. These outfits are incredibly feminine and sexy and have always been a Halloween favorite. One of the main reasons this costume has been so popular is its’ simplicity. The only requirements are a pair of bunny ears and a fluffy little tail. Other than that, the possibilities are practically endless since the tail can be sewn onto most any garment such as a bikini, a one-piece swimsuit, and most styles of lingerie.

There are a lot of other choices as well when it comes to adult costumes for women, such as the police woman outfit, the French maid, the pirate costume, the sexy belly dancer outfit, and the ever popular cheerleader, as well as many others. Which costume you choose will more than likely depend upon how and where you intend to wear it. If you intend to wear the outfit to a Halloween party, then a somewhat less revealing costume may be the best choice. Occupational costumes such as the police woman, the firefighter, waitress, the sexy secretary and construction worker outfits are always good choices. If it is only going to be worn in the bedroom, then something skimpier and sheerer such as the belly dancer, French maid, naughty nurse, sexy school girl, or cheerleader costume may be more to your liking. The most important thing is to pick an outfit that you feel comfortable in because if you wear a sexy lingerie costume to a Halloween party, you’re surely going to be turning some heads.

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Something as simple as women’s nightgowns can mean a good or not so good night’s sleep. Surprisingly, the difference between classic or sexy lingerie and intimate apparel can make the world of difference in how well you sleep. That is how essential sleepwear is though it is often overlooked.

Picking The Right Nightgown

There are a multitude of nightgown and ladies sleepwear styles to choose from. Some popular options are the sexy lace nightgown, the practical cotton nightgown, and silky satin nightgowns. And then there are the other basics like a women’s robe and pajamas.

So, how does one know which pajamas or nightgown is the best for them? The next time you are in the lingerie department contemplating sleepwear styles, ask yourself the following questions.

1. Consider the occasion or the purpose of the sleepwear. That\’s an important question. Which styles do you feel more comfortable in, a cotton nightgown or silk pajamas? Is your aim sexy and daring or modest and tame? The key to being successful in any lingerie style is choosing something that you are comfortable wearing and look great in. Consequently, you need to choose what feels best on you.

2. Select the fabric that feels best for you. One that feels good on your skin. If you feel right and comfy, then that is the fabric for you. Do you yearn for satin, silk, cotton or flannel? Do you prefer a knit or woven fabric? When shopping for ladies sleepwear, choose soft and cosy fabrics. Rough or irritating fabrics aren’t a good choice since they will chafe against your skin. Rather opt for cosier lingerie fabrics that feel fabulous like cotton, soft lace, most satins and luxurious lace if you can splurge.

Most women love the feel of cotton when it comes to ladies sleepwear. A practical and comfortable fabric, cotton continues to be a great choice. Satin, silk, lace or lace trims are considered dressier. Also consider microfiber which is very soft and comfy. Microfiber is a synthetic made from polyester or nylon and is ultra soft. These are just a few of the many materials available. Check out the different options and choose something that you like.

3. Consider the different pajamas or styles of women’s nightgowns. So, for example if it is a nightgown you are interested in, do you prefer a long nightgown or a short one? Keep in mind that short nighties are great for keeping cool during the summer and long nightgowns are popular during the winter months. Certainly the climate that you live in has a lot to do with your choice.

Additionally, consider what kind of neckline you prefer. The basic or traditional neckline is round or scoop. Other styles include the V neck or boat neck. And finally which sleeve length do you want. Do you like long or short sleeves? Or, do you like sleeveless? Is the air conditioning on where you sleep?

These are all things to take into account when you are sleepwear shopping for womens nightgowns or pajamas. And, little things like this can make a big difference between sleeping like a baby and having a restless night. Being comfortable when you sleep is so very important. Now, getting a great night’s sleep should be a breeze!

Author Bio: Carmen Petitclerc is a lingerie designer and enthusiast who hails from beautiful Toronto, Canada! Follow her lingerie tips on womens nightgowns and lingerie blog at Love of Lingerie

Flannel sleepwear is without a doubt one of the most popular ladies sleepwear styles. But do you know what flannel is? What is it made from?

Slightly napped one one or both sides, flannel is a cotton based fabric that is very soft. The nap of the flannel fabric which is also known as the pile feels velvety soft as it lies flat if brushed in one direction, but will stand up when brushed in another direction. The interesting part is the color can appear darker or lighter, based on which way the pile is brushed.

The Popularity of Flannel

What is the big deal with flannel sleepwear? Well, it is all about comfort. And, when the temperatures drop you’ll be sure to see plenty of fun and attractive flannel lingerie available in lingerie stores near you.

There are several flannel intimate apparel styles that are both pleasing and practical. Flannel pajamas and flannel nightgowns are acknowledged favorites. Flannel nightgowns and flannel pajamas are not famous for being terribly sensual or sexy. However, they are warm and functional. These cosy ladies sleepwear styles are the workhorse wonders of the intimate apparel world in cold climates, like North Dakota in the dead of winter.

There are additional styles that you may not be aware of. For women who are not comfortable with long nightgowns there is the flannel nightshirt. Ending at knee length or a bit longer, a nightshirt is the shorter option to its cousin the nightgown. Also very popular in flannel are women’s robes. The flannel robe also has several advantages. First and foremost, these robes are a great way to keep warm in cooler climates. And they are wonderful to lounge around the house in. After an early morning shower, the cosy comfort of flannel also makes flannel robes a good choice to keep warm.

Fun colors

Feasting your eyes on the seasonal colors of flannel lingerie is the fun part. Red plaid or tartan are the most popular colors. However, each season there are new and exciting patterns and designs. From cute cats and Poodles to pretty florals and polka dots there are a plethora of fabulous colors and designs to tempt everyone.

Do you prefer practical and plain? Or, are you bold and adventurous? Here is some lingerie advice. If, you are treating yourself then opt for a design or color that suits your personality. However, if you are buying a present for someone else, then take a few moments to think about the colors or patterns they enjoy. And, in case they are not madly in love with the gift make sure they are able to exchange it.

A great addition to any lingerie drawer, flannel sleepwear is without a doubt a lingerie favorite for those cold nights. It is a well liked lingerie and intimate apparel style. Cotton flannel is a natural fabric that breathes. It is resistant to wrinkling, very durable and washes well. And, the bonus is it feels good on the skin, without itchiness or dryness. If, you haven’t tried it before, treat yourself or your sweetheat to some flannel sleepwear. You will wonder why you waited so long.

Author Bio: Carmen Petitclerc is a lingerie designer and enthusiast who hails from beautiful Toronto, Canada! Follow her lingerie tips on flannel sleepwear and lingerie blog at Love of Lingerie

With so many different styles of sexy underwear available, you can have styles you wear when you feel a little sexy, styles for your wildest nights, and several sexy pairs for everything in between. Whether you want something a little sweet or something daring and naughty like crotchless panties, you can find a style that matches your personality.

Women’s underwear should be sexy. Even if you don’t feel like wearing a leather thong and a bustier underneath your work clothes, a pair of underwear with a little frill, lace or detailing can be a sexy secret you wear under your clothes that makes you feel special all day, and night. You can find many styles of sweet and sexy underwear that are comfortable enough to wear for every day and still add some spice to your nighttime dress.

One popular type of sexy underwear that can be worn anytime is lacy boy-shorts. This style is much bigger than bikini underwear, and many women find them more comfortable. They offer full coverage in the front and the back in a snug short-short style that turns sexy with the addition of lace, eyelets, sexy materials and any color of your choice.

Bikini-style underwear is a sexy staple in your closet, but it can be made even sexier by choosing different styles. Instead of a solid material, plain-color bikini panty, choose one with a wide strip of lace at the top and the tiniest piece of material going from front to back that you can find. Thong underwear made this way is popular, too. A wide strip of fur, frills or lace at the top paired with the full view in the back is a sexy style. Your partner will love this type of underwear, and you’ll feel extra sexy wearing it.

Whether you prefer bikini or thong underwear, choosing a sheer material is another way to go a little sexy. You can find sheer panties in barely there colors like peach, pink and tan, or choose daring colors like see-through black or red. A solid band at the top paired with a tiny, sheer strip, especially combined with a matching bra, is a great way to feel sexy and offer up a little tease.

When you feel really bold, there are many other styles to choose from to indulge your naughty side. The sky’s the limit so you can go just as daring and wild as you want. If leather is a favorite, you can find leather bikinis, thongs and other styles with accents like metal studs and rings to add a little kinkiness, if you prefer. A solid leather thong in black, white, red or even pink makes a sexy statement. A leather panty with a lace-up crotch is a spicy choice for when you really feel naughty.

Peek-a-boo panties that have a tiny slit right in front can be found in sweet and lacy styles or in materials like leather. And crotchless panties, the perfect choice when you’re looking for something really wild and sexy, come in all varieties, too. These are daring underwear that will make you feel naughty just putting them on, because you know you won’t have to take them off. Crotchless panties come in styles from tiny lace thongs to leather panties, and are perfect paired with a revealing peek-a-boo or cupless, underwire bra.

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